To clarify, Nextcloud is awesome. But may be overkill for personal use. Syncthing by order of magnitude is simpler and works beautifully with Tailscale. Like, my parents could've set this up.

I've torn down and rebuilt my personal instances of #nextcloud more times than I care to admit. Crashes, breaking upgrades, AIO migration, and now issues in putting it behind #tailscale which Nextcloud REALLY doesn't like. Skill issue? Absolutely. I tore it down for the last time recently and decided it's overkill for what I need.

I set up #syncthing this week, and IT'S MAGIC. Sure, I have fewer features but all I really needed was file sync that I could use with my own off-site backup. Throw Markor in there for notes and I'm a happy guy. I can't believe I was using an industrial tractor for a shovel job this whole time.