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  4. If my first kiss was pre-transition and i am now a guy but i always had a guy brain, does that make my first kiss with a "straight" guy gay ?

If my first kiss was pre-transition and i am now a guy but i always had a guy brain, does that make my first kiss with a "straight" guy gay ?

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  • jay (he/she)C jay (he/she)
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    empireoflove2@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    #4

    If you still outwardly presented as female and the guy you kissed considered you female, then no it was not gay. Changing gender IMO does not modify interactions had before the change.

    Realistically it doesn’t matter and you can kiss whoever the fuck you wanna

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      lucky_777@lemmy.world
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      You can kiss a guy and not be “gay”. You just kissed a male. You can still exclusively like females. Maybe you just wanted a taste?

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      • Komodo RodeoT Komodo Rodeo

        Time, place, and status therein are what makes it. Were you a man or woman at the time? Who did you kiss in that time and place?

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        jay (he/she)
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        #6

        ah, makes a lot of sense. i was a girl who kissed a boy.

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        • EkybioE Ekybio

          If you want to then yes, if you dont want to then no.

          At least thats the way of thinking I chose for myself. I chose no for myself, but you pick what feels right for you.

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          jay (he/she)
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          ahhh thank you!

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          • empireoflove2@lemmy.dbzer0.comE empireoflove2@lemmy.dbzer0.com

            If you still outwardly presented as female and the guy you kissed considered you female, then no it was not gay. Changing gender IMO does not modify interactions had before the change.

            Realistically it doesn’t matter and you can kiss whoever the fuck you wanna

            jay (he/she)C This user is from outside of this forum
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            jay (he/she)
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            #8

            thanks, it wasn’t gay then.

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            • L lucky_777@lemmy.world

              You can kiss a guy and not be “gay”. You just kissed a male. You can still exclusively like females. Maybe you just wanted a taste?

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              jay (he/she)
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              #9

              thanks! i’m pan

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              • jay (he/she)C jay (he/she)
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                Mark with a Z
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                #10

                did you say no homo

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                • jay (he/she)C jay (he/she)
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                  missjinx@lemmy.world
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                  #11

                  I have no Idea what you even ment, but if you’re happy that’s what matters! Happy for you dude

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                  • jay (he/she)C jay (he/she)
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                    darksiderbun@lemmy.ca
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                    What show is this uwu

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                    • jay (he/she)C jay (he/she)
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                      Diplomjodler
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                      Those anime titles are really getting out of hand.

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                        singulareye@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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                        #14

                        you were gay but he wasn’t

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                        • jay (he/she)C jay (he/she)

                          ah, makes a lot of sense. i was a girl who kissed a boy.

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                          Komodo Rodeo
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                          My pleasure, best of luck.

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                            rumschlumpel@feddit.org
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                            It was gay for you and straight for him. You could say it was kinky.

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                            • jay (he/she)C jay (he/she)
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                              Sundray
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                              #17

                              Doesn’t matter, had kiss 💋 😉

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                              • DiplomjodlerD Diplomjodler

                                Those anime titles are really getting out of hand.

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                                kibiz0r@midwest.social
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                                Boku no homo

                                ::: spoiler Tap for spoiler
                                Partially a reply to the comment just below this one, asking if they said “no homo”
                                :::

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                                  Overkrill
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                                  yes he is gay now he must register with the bureau of homosexual affairs and receive his blue hat

                                  (sarcasm- everybody knows the hats are actually periwinkle which is closer to purple)

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                                    gonzako@lemmy.world
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                                    Happened to me! First love transitioned away from being a girl. To me I remember the girl I fell in love with. He’s a dude now, can’t take that away but he can’t take away from me my memories.

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                                      mintyfresh@lemmy.world
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                                      #21

                                      Depends? Did you say “no homo” first?

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                                      • jay (he/she)C jay (he/she)
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                                        Drunk & Root
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                                        did you have socks or say no homo?

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                                          captainlezbian@lemmy.world
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                                          Whichever is funnier at any given time

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